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Living With and Beyond Cancer: Pete’s Story

When Pete first went to the doctor, he was expecting to be told he had piles. Instead, he heard life-changing words from his specialist:

“Mr. Vernon, you have a very small cancer that I feel can be completely cured. Unfortunately, it is in a very difficult position and will require major surgery. That will be both life-threatening and life-changing — in fact, it’s the largest operation we perform in this hospital.”

That moment, more than 11 years ago, marked the start of Pete’s journey with rectal cancer. Determined to stay positive, he faced surgery knowing his life would never be quite the same again.

Returning to Work and Adjusting to Change

After treatment, Pete quickly returned to work — too quickly, he admits in hindsight. He chose to be open with his colleagues and friends about his stoma, and soon people began approaching him with questions about symptoms, treatments, or their relatives’ experiences. His openness not only helped others but also gave him a sense of purpose during recovery.

Work remained a steady focus until the Covid pandemic, when Pete was offered an early redundancy package at the age of 67. Retiring three years earlier than planned gave him the time and opportunity to think about new ways of giving back.

Finding a Role in Support and Advocacy

That reflection led him to contact Colostomy UK. Pete began volunteering on the helpline, later representing the charity at stoma-related events. Although he doesn’t consider himself technical, his lived experience — including managing a stoma, travelling extensively, and using irrigation — proved invaluable to others. He also found reassurance in the charity’s network of knowledge and support: “You always know you can ‘phone a friend’ if needed,” he says.

After moving from Birmingham to Shropshire, Pete’s social life flourished, meaning he had less time for helpline shifts. However, he continues to play an active role, contributing to steering groups, attending events, supporting referrals, and offering befriending.

Sharing Experience With the Next Generation

One of Pete’s proudest recent moments came when he was invited to speak to a group of nurses finishing their training in the bowel unit. Sharing his story and experiences directly with healthcare professionals felt deeply rewarding.

Looking Forward

Pete’s journey with cancer has been life-changing in many ways. What began with a devastating diagnosis has grown into more than a decade of resilience, openness, and advocacy. Today, he continues to use his experience to support and inspire others, proving that life after cancer — and with a stoma — can still be full, active, and meaningful.